There are days when its easy to forget Chris and I are having any problems. Today was one of those days. We decided to take the kids to the beach, just after we arrived. They were full of energy after the plane trip so we decided to let them burn some of it off. It was a little chilly for swimming, despite the fact this is sunny California. But it was perfect for walks along the beach, and a little sand castle building.

I knew Lily and Connor would have a blast. We brought buckets and plastic shovels and about a dozen different shaped containers for them to use when they were building their castles. When they got tired of that, they chased each other up and down the beach or pestered Chris to piggy back them. The two of them adore their Dad but its plain to see Chris has found a big place in their hearts as well.

Isabella was pretty adventurous as well; eager to practice walking. Another few weeks and I think she's going to be getting around on her own. Right now she prefers to hang on to someone else's hand. Had to keep a close eye on her though, every time she sat down she tried to eat a handful of sand.

It was Tristan's birthday tomorrow, and even though we won't be spending the day with him, we gave him a pre- birthday call at dinner time. Had a feeling that would be the best time to get hold of him, Candace would insist on giving him being home. I don't think Chris can quite believe he has a 19-year old son but its true.